Buonanotte cari lettore!
Yes, I think I appear with some delay! Sure
delay because only today I will continue to posts Che Amore my friend competentíssimo Santtini writing!
I would like to share some "speculations," some "good senses" and even some things I learned in college or life.
I agree with many things said Santtini but disagree with others! Below I write a little of what I think and idealize a relationship.
First: Passion Love x.
Passion, as well described by Santtini, sums up that feeling of fullness when you're with the person and suddenly empty when you're away. It feels a little possessive, so even a little dangerous. Explosive, permissive and volatile, but undeniably delicious.
This is the passion present in all relationships seething in the first 3 to 4 months (this I learned in college classes in chemistry and physiology!).
Like any stimulus in our body, the passion is also due a chemical reaction! A smell, sound, touch, vision, all these stimuli can trigger the release of many substances in the body that will culminate in the neurotransmitters and the sensations they bring us, in short, the passion. And these stimuli are very specific to each one, after all, fell in love with different people, because we are different! Different is our chemical compatibility, unlike our trial is a good pair.
Now the passion is present in relacionemntos who has love, but we also do not have. Usually, if there is love, the relationship ends in a period not much greater than 3 months, which is when the explosion of passion subsides, and your body begins to return to homeostasis, or normal biorhythms!
"But Conejetti, and that is love?"
Well, there's a good question! And I did not learn this in college ...
Second: After the passion, now what?!
If your relationship survives the end of love (And if he survives, to say that lunch is over: for it is hard to do without the adrenaline of this!), What remains, ultimately, is love!
Love is nothing more than the serenity to accept the other, the camaraderie, pride, gratitude, intimacy.
Love is that feeling, even being in the same room without talking, you feel good and comfortable!
It's that feeling of pride, that feeling is mirrored in the person you are.
That feeling of torment for having done harm to the person beside you.
is the feeling so close he feels no shame. Do not feel shame for a stumble by one leaks, a bad joke or even a sudden nude (UI!) haha!
Then, every relationship is the common denominator passion. And it lasts, love is key! If not, the relationship is unsustainable.
Of course there are other factors, and be quite frank that they must exist!
Factors such as cultural, economic and geographic.
- It does not help you love a person who lives in New Zealand.
Either the person moves here, or you go there, or meet half way (In Fiji, more precisely!).
- There is no way you stay with someone who is very far away from its economic reality.
You do not go the same place, do not have the same tastes, you deprive yourself of things you like, or dipping is uncomfortable in some reality, I would say, more refined.
- Some cultures do not accept other as a couple, and that's a fact.
That's why I say that love alone is not enough ...
But the latter are well resolved, their relationship is more likely to succeed for a period Booom! Sometimes even for life.
Crisis? They exist! Always exist. But the game of his waist, letting go of rgulho and humor to help you pass by them!
Now, why 90% of relationships are doomed to failure?
Because of words like fear, laziness and lack, but these are for another post!
Abraccile!
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